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Sept.30, 2010: My topics are from subs who share their concerns and seduction was from many subs, through the years, who told me they had done every thing to seduce their spouse and nothing worked. I also heard this one often: Women of a certain age are dry. If you start too late to seduce & being nice to the spouse, she will think you did something wrong, such as cheating? (and BTW women know when their man cheats, they aren't gullible, if they don't say anything, mostly because they don't care, or want peace, or want to keep their status, and for monetary reasons, and on the other hand, guys don't know when their spouse are cheating, they are too absorbed, and women are better cheater, good girls are simply better liar) You won't score at the first nice gesture. If nothing works, send her to the Caribbean where there are young "GOs", and your spouse will thaw out fast! lol Not only old bulls that need to be titilated, old cows too get tired of the old bull, and while she is in Cancun, come to see me, I will teach you the art of seduction! LOL

Sept. 28, 2010: Seduction is not only about new sexy underwears or sending flowers, and in a 5 or 10 minutes duration, it's all over after you have ejaculated! I can't emphasize enough to my lady friends to put a chastety belt on their man, they will become more attentive to their needs. I'm sure you heard that women are very stimulated seeing their man helping with the house's chores, at least if you do help, she might find time for you. When a sub cleans my play space, Mommie is very happy and when Mommie is happy, everybody is happy! Writing sexy notes can set the mood, it is a good prelude and with those nice gestures, it shows you think & care about her!

Sept. 27, 2010: Genuine fetichists are interesting. I know it's not for me they come but for what I wear and do. I like their efforts, the seduction never ends, they crave, they can beg as much as they want, they do silly things, and women like men who do silly things for them. I truly enjoy seeing a man writhing on the floor at my feet. His visible suffering attracts me, the point is he is enticed and frustrated and always come back for more and in the end, he is forced to admit defeat, he will never be worthy of me.

Sept. 26, 2010: I had my first corset at 18, and I was with a vanilla man, and he mocked it! He was the first & the last vanilla man who saw me in sexy lingerie! I dated other vanilla men but they have not seen me in sexy lingerie not even with a matching bra & panties. Vanilla man seduces you once by putting his act together, gets new underwears once, if it's not his mommy who buys them for him. If you get flowers once, you are very spoiled, and after they got you in the sac, the seduction is over. They return to their caveman state. No more efforts! And then later on, they complain their sex life is almost null to zero with the spouse or the spouse left for someone else and this I've heard frequently from men who decided to put some spices in their life but are not really into what I do, they only want to try. They think I'm the one who has to seduce and entertain them and they believe by trying something new their engine will fire up to finally waste my time.

It's sad they don't get what BDSM is all about and I can't blame their ignorance! Nowadays they see websites announcing BDSM but it's actually nothing but sex & pornography and think I will do the same or I'm a cover up for sex..

Sept. 24, 2010: Two new pics added in album 2, one in second row, the other one in third row. Many will think those boots are new, (the red satin corset is) but in fact I have those boots at least 10 years, but I don't get to wear them often, takes too much time to lace up. Very hot boots, if only it was zippers instead of laces, I would wear them more often!

Sept.23, 2010: While browsing for cat information, I came across "The Crazy CAT"
I was curious to find out what it was, and here what I read: Enjoy missionary the most? Then try these new twists...The Crazy CAT ! In truth, the missionary position doesn't always give women enough clitoral contact to reach her peak — but leave it to a sexual researcher (Edward Eichel) to change that by inventing the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT). To do it, have your guy slide his torso up a few inches so he rocks, rather than thrusts, into you, keeping his pubic bone connected to yours at all times. The added clitoral stimulation is scientifically proven to up your enjoyment level.

Not at all my favourite position, but The Crazy CAT might make me change my mind !

Sept. 22, 2010: August outdoors foot massage special was a success, I wished to pursue this special for September, but the weather we have last few weeks is too unpredictable! Will October be nicer?

Sept 17, 2010: Leaving for Montreal, too bad & too late for subs who did not book and sent a deposit. I'm not someone you put on stanby in case you may have something more important and contacting me with "maybe" is also irrespectful and those emails are deleted without being answered.

Sept 13, 2010: I was just doing some online window shopping when I came across this dress. It is so gorgeous, I couldn’t resist sharing…Enjoy! fetish-factory.com

Before leaving my play space, a sub told me he was disappointed because I wasn't wearing a classy dress, I replied: Now you are telling me this at the end of the session! You should have said it when you booked! subs are usually too shy but after ejaculation, nothing holds them! It's a first sub who ever ask me this! Subs are paying to see latex, pvc, leather, skimpy outfits not classic dresses! I love wearing classic dresses, but you have to let me know when you book, my classy dresses are at home not in my play space. I added a picture of Moi with a classy dress on album 5, 3rd row

Sept 10, 2010: One of my fans ask if this POIS can affect women too? Women who masturbate a lot may get yest infections not POIS. The problem with women is the other way around, they aren't doing it enough! So they get sore muscles and other illness related if they aren't active which is called: Fibromyalgia.There is no known cure or universally accepted treatment for fibromyalgia but exercises help, and one of the exercises that I say to my lady friends who have fibromyalgia is get some mattress movements! Get laid at least twice a week, you'll see all the pain will go away! I believe it's the only cure!

Sept.9, 2010: This could happen to guys who masturbate a lot Postorgasmic_illness_syndrome and this is not a joke! I know personally a man who has this intense & constant pain after ejaculation. The article says: POIS could affect between 0.25%-1% of the population, or possibly more, and I say: Nowadays, I'm sure with the Internet, the percentage is much higher! If you have this POIS, turn off the Internet for a couple of days, keep it in your pants, you will get better! or at least save it all for me lol and the expression: you can do it until you wear glasses, it makes sense after reading this article!

Sept 8, 2010: When it's the back to school, the fun is over! For Me Summer is over! Few weeks ago, I took pictures and I called them "back to school" which I added in my fan club I got dressed with the little school girl skirt with a white blouse. So far, those pix were only seen by few privileged subs and their replies were: instant hard on! I guess it's what I do with the dildo! ;-) And they are now only available for my fan club members. (no cost to join in)

Sept 4, 2010: Montrealers: Don't miss my visit in Montreal, it probably will be my only one! I only went few times in Montreal and this was 10 years ago! So after this visit I may not go back for a while and certainly not in Winter time!

I will be in Montreal Sept 17, 18, 19 at a hotel nearby Voyageur bus station, to book & for my fee, see contact page and click on gold icon that says "click here for more info". Can't wait to crack my whip, strut my stuffs & playing with Montrealers new asses!

Sept. 3, 2010: I've been asked if I was attending Montreal fetish party this weekend. No! I don't like crowds, bars, where there is alcohol, people are less reserved and tend to be very annoying. I detest to be pushed & stepped on my precious feet! No public display for me! My subs value so much discretion and if their favorite Mistress was "out there" this would be too much exposure! 'cause most of them are very paranoïd.

Sept 2, 2010: My new boy toy made my day! He brought me the rocking fucking bench and it is very functional, did not take pix yet but it does the same as the monkeyrocker So who wants to give a try? Ravaging your ass at your own rhythm! Finally he did not test drive it but I did! and I'm very happy my rocking bench has a second life!

Sept 1, 2010: With that heat wave, I'm spending most of my days in the swimming pool. Sunday I dared my girl friends to all swim naked, I can tell you we had a great time! At one point the water was soooo warm, we were better outside the pool!

I'm not steady with my journal, and I don't think I will be for a while, I am cat sitting since last Friday, and wow that cat keeps me so busy, and I'm having sleep deprivation, it wakes me up at night and once I'm up, it goes back to sleep. The cat owner wants me to keep the cat. I'm trying out for the week and see how it will go. I am allergic to cats, but strange after the 3rd day my eyes aren't itchy anymore and my sinuses are ok! I think I will keep the cat! ohoh! I hope I will not become like those cat ladies who only live for their cat and the only thing they talk about it's their damn cats lol Last time I had a pet it was 20 years ago, and it was a dog, oh but I really know about dogs behavior. I see 2 legged dogs almost everyday for the last 18 years! I put them a collar, they drool, shed, leaking pipe, must teach them how to always lower the toilet seat after use, make them fetch, roll over, beg, sleep in a cage, and if they are good sometimes they chew on big bones, etc.

And if you are allergic or hate cats, the cat isn't at the dungeon, it stays at my house, which are 2 separated locations!