Mar 13 2014
Tiny dick sissy to Maîtresse Cathie
This is a conversation that I had with a sub who wants to meet Mistresses in one of the largest BDSM Community website on the Planet. And every time I ask subs if they have any success, their answers are always the same:
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 9:51 PM:
Hello Mistress Cathie. 🙂 i am happy to see You, and hope You are doing well?
CathieLaDivine on 3/12/14 at 9:52 PM:
Hello and yes, it’s been awhile I did not hear from you, any luck here?
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 9:54 PM:
No, Mistress Cathie. Mostly time-wasters, and those fantasizing about BDSM, etc rather than those actively seeking to participate in it. Very few in Ottawa too.
CathieLaDivine on 3/12/14 at 9:58 PM:
So you are telling me after all those years here no one at all? What do they do to waste your time?
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 10:03 PM:
Yes that is correct, Mistress Cathie. i have never met anyone on here that has lead to me serving. i’ve chatted with few that said they wanted to meet, but were just looking to get off, then disappeared. i guess for a lot of people, merely discussing their fantasies is a satisfying way to get off without having to commit to anything, Mistress
Cathie.CathieLaDivine on 3/12/14 at 10:08 PM:
Do you think you get men pretending to be women or genuine women?
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 10:10 PM:
i’d have to say it’s about 50/50, Mistress Cathie. Of course i never really know for sure, but i suspect that at least half have been men, Mistress.
CathieLaDivine on 3/12/14 at 10:14 PM:
your answers are the same to whom I asked, they all are telling me it’s just a waste of time!
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 10:17 PM:
Well it depends on what one is looking for, i suppose, Mistress Cathie. There are a lot of so-called Findoms on here, so any guy that has money, and who is just looking to get off will love this site, but this is definitely not the place to look when seeking real life servitude.
CathieLaDivine on 3/12/14 at 10:18 PM:
So a guy who can’t afford any of this, is screwed and will look forever unsuccessfully, guys are very patient and positive! lol
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 10:20 PM:
🙂 Absolutely, Mistress Cathie. It does feel like it anyway.
CathieLaDivine on 3/12/14 at 11:53 PM:
Thanks for your comments, that is also what I think about this site, waste of time! Have a good night!
tinydicksissy on 3/12/14 at 11:55 PM:
You are most welcome, Mistress Cathie. i hope You have a good night as well!
frank
Mar 13, 2014 @ 12:32:07
I think I know what site that is … and yes I totally agree with you Mistress.
MsCathie
Mar 13, 2014 @ 13:09:44
Yes frank it’s the same site that we reconnected after all those years! This site doesn’t only have bad sides! 🙂 Patience is a vertue! But those guys will spent years and years on those sites and bitch about not being able to find anyone! Men like to chase, but how exhausting and time consuming! How many gazelles a lion will chase before catching one? Many die of starvation. I have seen guys spending 6 hours to drive (one way) go to restaurant to get to know their potential mate, have to take a hotel room (for himself), to finally not finding a good match, so at the end how much they spent?
Let’s say the strict minimum $ they would spend for gaz $100, hotel $100, restaurant with no alcohol $50, rejection: priceless! And this is 12 hours on the road, few hours at restaurant, that makes a lot of time wasted, but not for a hunter. Paying one hour fee for a Pro-Domme is not right in their mind! I know women who go on those “dates” just to reject men and have a free lunch and make fun of them by telling to their girlfriends what a jerk he was.
It proves me that women in general aren’t interested in men kinky games, for most women, a man being a sub, it’s being a loser, weak, not attractive at all or kinky women don’t have to go on those sites to find someone to play, could that be it? And of course women like MOI who luv BDSM and make it an art, luv to take advantage of guys with their weakest desires.
Most replies are: I don’t have that kind of money, or I wouldn’t spend a dime, it is wrong to pay for it. They don’t have that kind of money but they will spend thousands on vacations, lose $ at the casino, golfing, happy ending massages, etc they find $ for all those activities they like to do but can’t budget for a one hour BDSM session that they have been longing for years and will still complain that they can’t find anyone!
Can’t budget on your own? Let Mistress be in charge! I offer weekly, semi-monthly small payments until you have the total amount, you can send by Interac or Amazon.com C’est la vie! Life is unfair! Deal with it! you want to play, you must pay! as a sub told me years ago! And a dungeon doesn’t come cheap to equip it.