Jul 3 2014
A get-rich-quick scheme?
Many men and women assume that Dommes become professionals for a get-rich-quick scheme, read this article! |
Jul 3 2014
Many men and women assume that Dommes become professionals for a get-rich-quick scheme, read this article! |
Sub doggy
Jul 03, 2014 @ 22:56:16
Maitresse, I would assume most gifts are really self centered gifts for themselves for you to use it on them. I’ve usually look to see what’s not there that would look good in your dungeon. Like that leather dog mask it looks awesome on top of that iron cage in your dungeon.. it just belongs with you there…. and that wasn’t for me as I’ve never worn it there…. it just wickedly fits the decor…a cheap o dog mask wouldn’t work but the Italian leather does.
I wanted to come this evening still due but way too late now and then when the weekend comes I will need to see you again…. damn I have to win the lotto.
MsCathie
Jul 03, 2014 @ 23:18:10
I have pretty much everything of what subs dream of, but one thing I don’t have is what you shown me: The Venus 2000, and I believe at that price it is not for tomorrow that I will obtain it and like you say, this Venus 2000 is definitely not for my personal use but if I get one and use it on subs, I may not get repeat clients, they will all go get one, it’s probably best at this price it is out of reach for most of us!
That dog mask is really a piece of art! It was a very nice gesture to give it to Moi, at $650, it made very nice pictures (see my “about” page)
Subs like you who have prove themselves trustworthy can come anytime they want. I know when you say you will come, you actually come and you are here on time!
Anonymous
Jul 03, 2014 @ 14:55:43
Maitresse: The article says: A woman who doesn’t have any training can charge $100 for a session, I haven’t find one who charges $100, I prefer seeing you and I certainly know that the money I spend is money well spent!
MsCathie
Jul 03, 2014 @ 15:03:32
Thanks! I will say maybe in the States, but I haven’t seen in Ottawa, au contraire! I see many new ones charging $300 +/h and they have only few toys in a bag and don’t have a play space, they go to your hotel room and not only to offer BDSM.
If it’s what guys are looking for, it’s none of my concern, because I offer a totally different experience for a totally different clientele. I accommodate guys who privacy is mandatory in my fully equipped dungeon and discreet location and most guys are married and from Ottawa, so they won’t pay $150 extra for a hotel room and won’t go to all the trouble to rent a room. I bet you have never thought of this, from this angle, My fee is roughly $100/h.
But what really justify a bigger fee for one service from another? From my point of view as long there will be demands, women have the upper hand! (at least there is a place we do)
One more thing, I don’t know any of the Ladies who own a new car, it’s not a get-rich-quick scheme, that’s for sure!
sub rob
Jul 03, 2014 @ 09:59:09
Maîtresse,
A very well written article. It emphasizes the professional part of the business, which is very expensive, and not something which amateur Dommes will ever be able compete with. From my very first session, i have known You to be mature, experienced, professional, and with a very well equipped dungeon. Definitely worth every dollar that You charge…
MsCathie
Jul 03, 2014 @ 14:15:11
Thank you! sub rob, I’m glad you appreciate your experiences with me, I too appreciate you as a person and as a devoted sub! Of course I’m not for everyone. I have my own style, taste, and ways, but with you sub rob, you make my life easier and always take it with a big smile! Isn’t how life should be?
Of course amateurs have to start somewhere! But do amateurs spend over $20 k on paraphernalia like I did on my first year? And I did not have $20 k, I put all my earnings upon my dungeon. I could have bought I brand new car but I didn’t.
Many women who became Pro-Dommes were disenchanted after a year or two and quit. They thought it will be easy, they thought they will be lavished with gifts, they did not realize it wasn’t easy to deal with men that call themselves subs weren’t what they said they were or will not do what they said they will do, all the B.S., etc.
I too would probably had quit if wannabe subs had a direct line to contact me, but the way I operate, I know how to detect the time wasters. I know I lose a lot of potential subs, but my safety comes first! I prefer one sure sub than 20 wannabes that may or may not come or pulling a no show. I concentrate my time with subs like you who spoil me and with subs that do what they say they will do and in return I’m generous with my time, I know how to appreciate amazing subs! Scratch my back I will scratch your! Meow