Mar 19 2014

Cycles

It’s not about menstrual cycles, but the cycles that subs have!

A sub reported to me the following: I go through these cycles of guilt and regret and once I tribute to some online Domme, I feel bad and I close my email account and decided never do it again, only I come back couple of weeks later, and find myself doing it again. I think you must have been familiar with this kind of pattern among your subs as it’s not uncommon, based on my findings.

sub, these cycles you have, I’m used to it, most are ashamed having those submissive feelings. After a session, they praise me and are thankful to have lived such experience but once home they swear they will not repeat, but after an amount of time, they all come back, and it’s okay, and I will open my arms to them again!

Many don’t go back to the same Domme because of shame, or any other reasons, (like afraid to be seen at such place) and it’s usually those subs who will complain and feel unfulfilled most of the time and give bad reviews.  With one visit,  how can you gel and have a fulfilling relationship with any Domme?  Even with over 20 visits with the same Domme, for many subs, the cycle of regret and shame is omnipresent, why denying? It’s your nature, born to serve!

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