May 28 2015
What it is to work as a Dominatrix?
This sub has only captured 1/3 of what it is to work as a Dominatrix. My list is much more extensive than his:
http://www.slate.com/blogs/quora/2015/05/19/what_s_it_like_to_work_as_a_dominatrix.html
and most of you think we sit all day on our ass and eat bonbons or doing drugs or drink alcohol and wait for calls…nope! Not this one!
https://placedivine.com/web/2017/05/19/self-employed-facts/
Mistress Storm Dewitt
Sep 25, 2016 @ 03:42:07
Hey you forgot to mention rigorous and intense cleaning disinfecting and wipe down that we do after EACH session; the cleaning at the end of the day; soaking the toys in bleach or peroxide to disinfect them; cleaning end disinfecting every implement used from which to health cost anything we use in a session must be absolutely cleaned pronto! Some people complain about the cost… You forgot to mention OUR COST of doing business — regardless of what you have a session we must maintain and meet Strict Health Department regulations and codes we don’t get anything for free… we have to continually stock up on supplies like gloves, rubbing alcohol, peroxide, bleach condoms -for the toys, toiletries –for shower after the session, sterile, disposable liners – to put on the surface so you don’t soil the bed or the table and lots of laundry detergent and fabric softener-to wash the towels everyday!
Add Plus the cost of electricity for washer/dryer and gas to go to the store and buy these things. None of these things are inexpensive oh and ubricant lubricant I buy top-of-the-line, Astroglide–which CVS sells a 2.5 ounce bottle for $21 . I used to have no slaves. I do all my charge myself so it’s very labor-intensive
MsCathie
Sep 25, 2016 @ 12:06:58
Of course I don’t let subs do that clean up, first they are mostly clueless (not to say useless) about how spic and span things must be. I mention on other posts how everything I use on subs are clean before and how they appreciate the value of a clean place, it must be cleaned after and to make sure it’s done, they personally do the clean up especially for the clothing they worn and I insist they do the hand wash themselves of their sexy delicate lingerie. Love that you put your 2 cents comment! That worth a fortune! 😉
Anonymous
Nov 05, 2020 @ 01:24:08
Hi ms Cathie. We are new to this world of different ways to enjoy life ..,, I am from France and never had different experiences…,. Why I am here is to found out where I should go..,,, hope to hear from you
MsCathie
Nov 05, 2020 @ 16:23:52
contact me by email on my contact page, I speak French
Anonymous
May 29, 2015 @ 23:56:29
Mistress, I’m a novice and I find this article very informative! I’m curious to know what are the 2/3 not mentioned on this article that you do? If you don’t mind me asking?
MsCathie
May 30, 2015 @ 00:14:29
A sub told me that I am good at customer service and market development, this is not all that I’m good at! Here are my qualifications and what many seek from me: Therapist, Sex therapist, Matrimonial Counselor, Consultant, they come for My advice! I’m also a personal shopper for sub/slaves, guide, photographer, web designer, interior decorator, artist, translator, nurse, healer, teacher, baby sitter, accountant, writer, match maker, mind reader, (did not master this last one yet but I can sense your need to serve Me! 🙂 CPR certified, in case someone heart can’t take it! See how a Pro-Domme has to wear many hats! I can also add: cock teasing, mind blowing, tamer, slave breaker, domesticator, behavior modificator, but these my subs/slaves already know and all the other things I do are already on my dungeon page. Negotiator: Zero tolerance! When someone haggles my fee, I flush him immediately, or I double my fee!
It will be nice to have a slave to do my networking, replying to my emails and calls, so I can have more leisure moments but I know My subs don’t want anyone else than Moi to reply to their emails and calls. I don’t think they would appreciate that it’s not Moi who answers their emails. Many Dommes use their personal slave to do this, and you wouldn’t know but I do not! And I will never let a slave do this chore because I want to know with whom I’m dealing with and who you really are before I decide to see you. I won’t let anyone make this decision for Moi!
Anonymous
May 29, 2015 @ 11:30:25
Mistress, do you also take time to unwind after each session? or some session? are some sessions more taxing and tiring?
MsCathie
May 29, 2015 @ 16:17:25
Every day is different! I can’t predict if I will have time to unwind or not, often I don’t have time to unwind between each session, because when a sub has an urge, it’s now! Not in two days, I will see subs on short notice (one hour notice) I’m on call, but I have to tell you with some subs I’m actually unwinding. (’cause subs are suppose to seek for Mistress’s welfare, isn’t it? Not many understand their role) I like a foot massage, it’s so relaxing and I will never refuse a body massage. Of course some subs are strategically more demanding, but I like challenges and I’m always looking for new scenarios to keep everybody alert and I sure am very skillful to realize fantasies, because other wise I wouldn’t be in this field all those years.
sub d
May 28, 2015 @ 01:27:31
Maîtresse,
Every sub & slave should read this to see how much work is to be a Pro-Domme or should I say Professional. Then maybe they would appreciate what they have or could lose in the future.*:(( crying