Question for you Goddess, is visiting a pro-domme like yourself considered cheating on spouse? there is no sex involved, so maybe it’s more like seeing a therapist?but I guess it can be cheating if your spouse thinks it’s cheating, so maybe it differs from person to person, eh?
Many times I thought leaving my profession because nowadays people are mislead most BDSM videos online are pure porns and most escorts are offering BDSM, and clients expect the same when seeking a Pro-Domme’services. I can’t blame your spouse thinking you are cheating.
When your spouse don’t want to fulfill your fantasies, who is actually cheating you by “breaking” the vows? For the best or the worst until death do us part! But you can’t impose your desires on your spouse who thinks your fantasies are despicable. Are you going to suppress your BDSM desires for the rest of your life for the sake of saving your marriage or keep bothering your spouse until she has enough and leaves you?
Most men believe when they pay for a sexual service it’s not cheating. I have been told many times that My services are more effective than seeing a real therapist. I have sex therapists who send me their patients and I “saved” marriages. So with these words, I will stick around for a while knowing there are still guys who are not seeking sex with me and need a traditional pro-domme and respect what my profession used to be!
Anonymous
Sep 03, 2015 @ 09:56:06
Question for you Goddess, is visiting a pro-domme like yourself considered cheating on spouse? there is no sex involved, so maybe it’s more like seeing a therapist?but I guess it can be cheating if your spouse thinks it’s cheating, so maybe it differs from person to person, eh?
MsCathie
Sep 04, 2015 @ 11:59:30
Many times I thought leaving my profession because nowadays people are mislead most BDSM videos online are pure porns and most escorts are offering BDSM, and clients expect the same when seeking a Pro-Domme’services. I can’t blame your spouse thinking you are cheating.
When your spouse don’t want to fulfill your fantasies, who is actually cheating you by “breaking” the vows? For the best or the worst until death do us part! But you can’t impose your desires on your spouse who thinks your fantasies are despicable. Are you going to suppress your BDSM desires for the rest of your life for the sake of saving your marriage or keep bothering your spouse until she has enough and leaves you?
Most men believe when they pay for a sexual service it’s not cheating. I have been told many times that My services are more effective than seeing a real therapist. I have sex therapists who send me their patients and I “saved” marriages. So with these words, I will stick around for a while knowing there are still guys who are not seeking sex with me and need a traditional pro-domme and respect what my profession used to be!
Anonymous
Sep 05, 2015 @ 11:18:19
Great answer, Mistress! and it makes a log of sense! Thanks!
Anonymous
Sep 03, 2015 @ 08:04:16
So true, and life is short, why not.
oops, this sounds like Ashley Madison’s marketting slogan 🙂